I don't think attachment denial is a great way to relate

Relational liberty is not a pious apathy

One thing I often see amid the many streams of memes is that non-monogamy somehow grants people superpowers of choice - you don’t own anyone you are with, and you don’t get to take them for granted, so your intimate relationships become super-valid because every day that you and yours show up together is a product of conscious intention. 

I think this is…